When did doubt first creep into your mind? Doubt about yourself. Doubt about whether the right man was out there? Whether you could have all you dreamed of having? At what point did your childhood hopes get extinguished? Was it when you were told to grow up? Did growing up somehow mean giving up? Giving […]
There will be discomfort. Days when you question if anything will ever change. Nights when you’ll wonder if you’ll always be alone. Sometimes you’ll worry you aren’t enough. That something may be wrong with you. Beating yourself up for that time you looked away instead of holding eye contact with a man you wanted to […]
If you haven’t found soulmate love with the right man, chances are there are some hidden barriers and fears standing in the way. The most common block I run across with clients is the subconscious fear and belief that “I Am Not Enough”. Today I’m sharing a mini-meditation that helps clear this block to put […]
I saw a greeting card today with “DON’T LEAVE ME” in big letters on the front and it got me thinking… Fear of being abandoned. Fear of being alone. These two fears, ironically, are what keep single women alone. That’s right… you can literally push men away without knowing you’re doing it because these two […]
Have you ever felt too tired to go out and meet men? If so, you need to listen to this 3 minute audio where I share the REAL reason that’s happening so you can overcome it and find the right man! Listen now! [audio:http://datemennotboys.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/05/Too-Tired-To-Go-Out-and-Meet-Men.mp3] Or Right-Click Here To Download File Much Love, Barry
The problem with pain is that it hurts. My Mom lived a lifetime in pain. The pain of loneliness. Of never feeling like she was enough for a good man. As a result, my childhood was a procession of men who seemed to treat her great at first, only to hurt and disappoint her, leaving […]
Say this out loud and set a powerful intention for today! Today I operate from a place of love. I know there is enough today. enough love. Enough time. Enough money. Enough joy. Enough energy — I know that *I* am enough! I now am willing to let fear fall away, let selfish agendas fall […]
Today I want to share a piece of coaching I gave to my advanced Mastermind clients on a call this week. A client asked why she had been attracted to ‘bad boys’. Can you relate? You know he’s trouble but you’re attracted to him. Maybe you’ve even told yourself you were going to stop falling […]
Okay, so you’ve gotten sick and tired of guys who seem confident at first only to turn out to be insecure and emotionally immature buys. So what’s the secret to getting a man who *really* walks his talk? Here it is in a five-minute audio! Grab a glass of your fave beverage or hit the […]
Why is it that they guys you want make you nervous, yet all the guys who seem to be attracted to *you* are guys you could care less about? If you’re getting tongue tied, getting butterflies, or feeling tense around the type of men you *really* want, but you’re relaxed, awesome and authentic around the […]