Jaws Is Eating All The Good Men In Your Love-Life

I saw a greeting card today with “DON’T LEAVE ME” in big letters on the front and it got me thinking… Fear of being abandoned. Fear of being alone. These two fears, ironically, are what keep single women alone. That’s right… you can literally push men away without knowing you’re doing it because these two bad-boys are lurking under the surface of your subconscious. Subconscious means below your conscious, right, so this is stuff you can’t see or notice is happening! Like Jaws swimming around underwater, killing your chances of being with the right man! (Cue Jaws music)

If you have even found yourself starting relationships well, but getting fearful and insecure a little ways in, then these fears are running your love-life. Ever pushed a man away by getting clingy, needy or anxious when he seemed unavailable? I don’t mean the reasonable stuff, like “Hey, I expect you to at least wanna see me once a week when you’re not even busy!” I mean the whole “I know I shouldn’t text him, I just texted him. And I know he’s busy. Oh my God, I don’t want to seem needy, but I feel like he’s losing interest. I need reassurance.” Like THAT.

Because that, right there, is Jaws devouring your chances of happiness with a man.

So what do you do to quiet these fears so you can have a healthy relationship? Well, stop feeding the sharks, for one! That’s right. Stop feeding your fears. Identify the things in your life that feed into fears of not being good enough, being judged, rejected and abandoned.

You can try therapy, but sometimes that takes decades with little noticeable change in the results you’re actually getting in your relationships with men. What you REALLY need are tools. Tools that help you bust, break and change that lifelong pattern of fear.

You want to hunt down and eliminate the killer shark that’s consuming all the good men out of your love life! To do that, you’re gonna need someone who knows how to hunt shark, aren’t you? I mean, you *could* go hunt shark on your own I suppose. I see women do it all the time. “I’ll figure it out”, your friend, who has bad luck with men, says after yet another guy has stopped calling her after he seemed so nice at the start. It’s easy to blame the guy. Call him a jerk. Never look at *why* the relationship changed.

The truth is, no advice from a friend, no amount of waiting for your luck to change, no book or article (not even this one) can save you from the fear of abandonment without what I am about to tell you next —

The *only* thing that changes fear are powerful EXPERIENCES designed to break your fear pattern. And the only way to do that is with the right coaching designing the right experiences. So stop trying to hunt shark yourself, and DEFINITELY stop letting your fear of being alone and being abandoned push healthy relationships and great men out of your life.

Will Jaws keep feeding on your love life, or are you ready to do something about it?

Much Love,
Barry

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