You’ve been asking the wrong question. At some point or another, the question “Why don’t I have a man? The *right man*?” has crossed your mind. Maybe it was as you attended yet another wedding and watched the couples joy, feeling like you were missing out on something you *know* you’re meant to have too. […]
This morning I had the urge to listen to the hit song “Let it Go” from the film “Frozen”. As I sang along (yes, I do that!) I suddenly stopped and turned to my wife Anna. “I just realized the three stages women go through trying to find a soulmate, and why they get stuck!” […]
If you haven’t found soulmate love with the right man, chances are there are some hidden barriers and fears standing in the way. The most common block I run across with clients is the subconscious fear and belief that “I Am Not Enough”. Today I’m sharing a mini-meditation that helps clear this block to put […]
The PERFECT man does not exist. The RIGHT man DOES. The Right Man is the man who is in between the guy you ‘settle’ for with low standards, and the ‘perfect’ guy who doesn’t exist because of ‘impossible’ standards. Moderating the two is what works. To find a satisfying relationship we have to stop setting […]
Women absolutely overthink love… but only as a result of their heart being hurt or sad and their head stepping in as the ‘protector’. Unfortunately the head does a poor job of attracting love. When women move back into their heart (which only happens once you are confident you can create safe boundaries and self-acceptance […]
Do either of these sound familiar? You know you can’t meet the right man by staying at home, but sometimes it can feel awkard trying to meet people when you’re out! That can make the idea of going to social places stressful instead of fun. Or maybe you are sick of being out all day […]
If men have ever disappointed or hurt you once you’ve been intimate with them, then this video is a must watch. I reveal why you keep getting hurt by these men, and how to finally move past disappointment so you can find the man who is supportive, safe, and attractive all at the same time. […]
I saw a greeting card today with “DON’T LEAVE ME” in big letters on the front and it got me thinking… Fear of being abandoned. Fear of being alone. These two fears, ironically, are what keep single women alone. That’s right… you can literally push men away without knowing you’re doing it because these two […]
Have you ever felt too tired to go out and meet men? If so, you need to listen to this 3 minute audio where I share the REAL reason that’s happening so you can overcome it and find the right man! Listen now! [audio:http://datemennotboys.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/05/Too-Tired-To-Go-Out-and-Meet-Men.mp3] Or Right-Click Here To Download File Much Love, Barry
Are you a successful women who can’t understand why you keep attracting men who don’t support you the way you support them? If you give and give and give, and they never return the support then you need to watch this short video where I share TWO questions you can ask yourself to get to […]