This holiday season I want you to remember something — but first, I don’t want you to remember the pain of past holiday seasons with people who have caused you pain, and I definitely don’t wish for you to dwell on the lingering pain of lost loved-ones who are no longer in your life.
No, this holiday season I want you to remember that when you were little child this was a magical season for you (before the weight of the world, and the worries of adults got onto you). Remember what it felt like when you were still in a state of utter and complete LOVE.
The best gift you can give yourself this year is to come home to who you truly are… who you truly were as a little girl before you stopped shining with the joyful, carefree laughter that you expressed less-and-less over the years. It’s time to once again be who you are when you are not living in fear of the expectations of others. Not worrying about their judgement. Not held hostage by a desperate-feeling need to be loved and accepted by those closest to you.
It’s time to LET GO.
Let go of the worry, and the ghosts of the past.
It’s time to create the space for love. Because, before you can receive love this season, you must first let go… So let’s do it. Right now. Choose ONE pain you’ve been hanging onto for too many years — the pain that every holiday season brings right back to the surface for you. Choose the one that’s haunted you and held your heart in darkness, whether it’s sadness, anger, resentment, self-pity — it doesn’t matter! Just choose the heaviest feeling one.
Now, I invite you to give yourself the gift of letting your pain go. Do you know what will happen as soon as you let it go? When heaviness and past pain leave your life, it makes space for something new and wonderful to enter your life in the new year. It clears the old emotional clutter and creates space for something new, beautiful, and loving!
Give yourself the gift of freeing your inner little girl to laugh and love fully again! You deserve it. You ARE enough, just as you are.
Happy Holidays and Much Love.
Barry
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