To build something positive, we focus on the positive. So today, we’re going to take a moment to focus on what’s great about you, in your dating and relationships. Start by just taking a moment to think back on some of the things that you may have been told by past partners, your current partner, […]
Moving moments move us forward — and what a moving moment it was last night when new Emmy winner, Glenn Weiss, shared that his mother has passed away just two weeks before his win. As sad and as poignant as that moment was, reminding us how precious life is, he followed it up by shocking […]
As I sit writing this, the cafe plays a Dave Brubeck jazz song I recall from Dr.Mee’s Grade 10 Music Theory class. It takes me back thirty years to a time when I was trying to understand not just music theory, but how to meet, and romance girls. And the truth is, I cobbled together […]
There are TWO lessons you can apply to YOUR relationships from the Royal Wedding of American Meghan Markle to Prince Harry. #1 It’s About Fantasy #2 She Is Making A Major Women’s Empowerment Statement Today Let me explain how that applies to you… We’ll deal with #1 first. Most of us grew up with Disney […]
Do you know the ONE thing I have discovered ALL of my successful clients with healthy relationships have? (If you don’t have this, you AREN’T changing your man pattern) DESIREThat’s it — now you COULD roll your eyes at how simple the answer is, dismiss it (or say “Yeah yeah, I already know THAT” and STOP […]
It’s a common refrain from women I meet, “When I met him he seemed…” and then they describe a guy who SEEMED to have it all together: confident, strong, took care of business, sensitive, supportive, caring, and on and on. Maybe you know what comes next. What comes next is, they share about how Prince […]
Men, and society, have stifled women’s voices for centuries in many ways, but one of the most insidious ideas that has been propagated to suppress women expressing FULLY is the idea that it’s “unattractive” for a woman to be angry. First of all, the idea that being attractive should be topmost on any woman’s priority […]
Women (and men) are being misled, and I can’t sit by quietly as it happens. A part of the mainstream psychology community is trying to convince us that loneliness is a disease. It is not a disease, it is a signal. It signals the lack of something we need: connection. Much like hunger is a […]
You may have noticed that the title of this article tells men they need to read this — I put that there because, typically, I have found far more women are interested in spending time and energy to consciously design their dynamic with the opposite sex while men tend not to do so. In our […]
“Everything in the world is about sex except sex. Sex is about power. ~ Oscar Wilde You could replace the word sex with relationships in Wilde’s quote and it would hold equally true for most people. Unfortunately, one of the things many of us learn as we grow up is to confuse the idea of […]