Women (and men) are being misled, and I can’t sit by quietly as it happens. A part of the mainstream psychology community is trying to convince us that loneliness is a disease. It is not a disease, it is a signal. It signals the lack of something we need: connection. Much like hunger is a […]
We all dance with fear, sometimes. In the quiet moments. The lonely moments that come. Sometimes isolation visits us when we are surrounded by people, by family, on those special occasions and holidays when we feel aware that we are not like the others around us. We feel different. Not seen. Not understood. At those […]
This live talk was amazing. We had almost thirty women there for a standing-room only, exciting Saturday evening where we answered all their biggest questions about why there are so many boys out there, and how to find the right man. We gave SO much value and the reviews were raves! Women said it was […]
When did doubt first creep into your mind? Doubt about yourself. Doubt about whether the right man was out there? Whether you could have all you dreamed of having? At what point did your childhood hopes get extinguished? Was it when you were told to grow up? Did growing up somehow mean giving up? Giving […]
There will be discomfort. Days when you question if anything will ever change. Nights when you’ll wonder if you’ll always be alone. Sometimes you’ll worry you aren’t enough. That something may be wrong with you. Beating yourself up for that time you looked away instead of holding eye contact with a man you wanted to […]
You’ve been asking the wrong question. At some point or another, the question “Why don’t I have a man? The *right man*?” has crossed your mind. Maybe it was as you attended yet another wedding and watched the couples joy, feeling like you were missing out on something you *know* you’re meant to have too. […]
Women absolutely overthink love… but only as a result of their heart being hurt or sad and their head stepping in as the ‘protector’. Unfortunately the head does a poor job of attracting love. When women move back into their heart (which only happens once you are confident you can create safe boundaries and self-acceptance […]