Does age matter? It is not the age, it is the stage. When I say stage, what I mean is: what stage of life are you at? What stage of life are they at? There are a lot of different ways to think of that. Like my client who is in her mid 40s and […]
My client Jane wanted to know how to make love last. This led us into a conversation about the entire idea of lasting love. When we are young, sometimes we have these romantic notions where we see everything in black and white, everything as absolutes. We believe in the forever, fairytale style love, then we […]
To build something positive, we focus on the positive. So today, we’re going to take a moment to focus on what’s great about you, in your dating and relationships. Start by just taking a moment to think back on some of the things that you may have been told by past partners, your current partner, […]
Lift yourself. Buoy yourself on the rising tides of Universal love. Universal Acceptance. It can lift you from the dry, cracked shore of desolation. Lift you from the repetitious life that lulls you to complacent sleep. Lift you to heights of joy, afloat on seas with endless horizons of possibility. Begin within yourself, Each place […]
Moving moments move us forward — and what a moving moment it was last night when new Emmy winner, Glenn Weiss, shared that his mother has passed away just two weeks before his win. As sad and as poignant as that moment was, reminding us how precious life is, he followed it up by shocking […]
As I sit writing this, the cafe plays a Dave Brubeck jazz song I recall from Dr.Mee’s Grade 10 Music Theory class. It takes me back thirty years to a time when I was trying to understand not just music theory, but how to meet, and romance girls. And the truth is, I cobbled together […]
There are TWO lessons you can apply to YOUR relationships from the Royal Wedding of American Meghan Markle to Prince Harry. #1 It’s About Fantasy #2 She Is Making A Major Women’s Empowerment Statement Today Let me explain how that applies to you… We’ll deal with #1 first. Most of us grew up with Disney […]
Do you know the ONE thing I have discovered ALL of my successful clients with healthy relationships have? (If you don’t have this, you AREN’T changing your man pattern) DESIREThat’s it — now you COULD roll your eyes at how simple the answer is, dismiss it (or say “Yeah yeah, I already know THAT” and STOP […]
It’s a common refrain from women I meet, “When I met him he seemed…” and then they describe a guy who SEEMED to have it all together: confident, strong, took care of business, sensitive, supportive, caring, and on and on. Maybe you know what comes next. What comes next is, they share about how Prince […]
Men, and society, have stifled women’s voices for centuries in many ways, but one of the most insidious ideas that has been propagated to suppress women expressing FULLY is the idea that it’s “unattractive” for a woman to be angry. First of all, the idea that being attractive should be topmost on any woman’s priority […]