It’s a common refrain from women I meet, “When I met him he seemed…” and then they describe a guy who SEEMED to have it all together: confident, strong, took care of business, sensitive, supportive, caring, and on and on. Maybe you know what comes next. What comes next is, they share about how Prince […]
Women (and men) are being misled, and I can’t sit by quietly as it happens. A part of the mainstream psychology community is trying to convince us that loneliness is a disease. It is not a disease, it is a signal. It signals the lack of something we need: connection. Much like hunger is a […]
You may have noticed that the title of this article tells men they need to read this — I put that there because, typically, I have found far more women are interested in spending time and energy to consciously design their dynamic with the opposite sex while men tend not to do so. In our […]
Being a powerful woman around men brings up a lot of challenges. Some men are intimidated. Others turn you into their Mommy, relying on you to be the strong ‘doer’ in the relationship. So how, as a powerful woman, can you have a healthy relationship with a man who carries his weight, does his share […]
If you’ve ever been hurt…. …or angry… that your heart was not handled with loving-hands. If inside you is a jagged tear where someone else inserted their hopes, their demands, their punishing looks and pulled until it hurt and left a hole. If pain is the state of stillness, and quiet is loneliness. Then you’ve […]
This week’s report is a day late because Anna and I have had her wonderful family down visiting us! Summer is a great time for vacations and visitors but now I am back in full swing so here is what’s happening this week in the dating world that matters most to you and what to […]
Dearest girl, deep inside you know who you are. And your inner radiance, that exuberance of joy and spirit, awaits being seen and understood by the spirit of your soulmate. Yet, how can this happen if we hide within ourself? How can he find what is hidden? Sometimes, through lifes travails we retreat to the […]
Something happened to me this morning and it relates to you. As I sat having breakfast at a cafe, I witnessed exactly what causes so many of us, and so many of the women I serve, to go through their lives pushing intimacy away and protecting themselves from being hurt by disappointment. As I sat, […]
Dear ‘Experts’ on the Masculine & Feminine… what are you doing?? I humbly submit that you’ve gotten it all wrong. I recently did an interview where I was asked “What’s the difference between masculine and feminine?” The thing is, asking the question, “What defines feminine vs masculine?” is inherently a VERY masculine thing to do! […]
We all dance with fear, sometimes. In the quiet moments. The lonely moments that come. Sometimes isolation visits us when we are surrounded by people, by family, on those special occasions and holidays when we feel aware that we are not like the others around us. We feel different. Not seen. Not understood. At those […]