As I sit writing this, the cafe plays a Dave Brubeck jazz song I recall from Dr.Mee’s Grade 10 Music Theory class. It takes me back thirty years to a time when I was trying to understand not just music theory, but how to meet, and romance girls. And the truth is, I cobbled together […]
There are TWO lessons you can apply to YOUR relationships from the Royal Wedding of American Meghan Markle to Prince Harry. #1 It’s About Fantasy #2 She Is Making A Major Women’s Empowerment Statement Today Let me explain how that applies to you… We’ll deal with #1 first. Most of us grew up with Disney […]
Do you know the ONE thing I have discovered ALL of my successful clients with healthy relationships have? (If you don’t have this, you AREN’T changing your man pattern) DESIREThat’s it — now you COULD roll your eyes at how simple the answer is, dismiss it (or say “Yeah yeah, I already know THAT” and STOP […]
It’s a common refrain from women I meet, “When I met him he seemed…” and then they describe a guy who SEEMED to have it all together: confident, strong, took care of business, sensitive, supportive, caring, and on and on. Maybe you know what comes next. What comes next is, they share about how Prince […]
Men, and society, have stifled women’s voices for centuries in many ways, but one of the most insidious ideas that has been propagated to suppress women expressing FULLY is the idea that it’s “unattractive” for a woman to be angry. First of all, the idea that being attractive should be topmost on any woman’s priority […]
Women (and men) are being misled, and I can’t sit by quietly as it happens. A part of the mainstream psychology community is trying to convince us that loneliness is a disease. It is not a disease, it is a signal. It signals the lack of something we need: connection. Much like hunger is a […]
You may have noticed that the title of this article tells men they need to read this — I put that there because, typically, I have found far more women are interested in spending time and energy to consciously design their dynamic with the opposite sex while men tend not to do so. In our […]
“Everything in the world is about sex except sex. Sex is about power. ~ Oscar Wilde You could replace the word sex with relationships in Wilde’s quote and it would hold equally true for most people. Unfortunately, one of the things many of us learn as we grow up is to confuse the idea of […]
Being a powerful woman around men brings up a lot of challenges. Some men are intimidated. Others turn you into their Mommy, relying on you to be the strong ‘doer’ in the relationship. So how, as a powerful woman, can you have a healthy relationship with a man who carries his weight, does his share […]
Today’s Solar Eclipse reminds me of how you (and many powerful women I know) may be blocking love out of their life! The single biggest block to attracting the right man is the feeling of loneliness, aloneness, emptiness that craves relief. I have a client how went to a party this weekend and reported back, […]