Women (and men) are being misled, and I can’t sit by quietly as it happens. A part of the mainstream psychology community is trying to convince us that loneliness is a disease. It is not a disease, it is a signal. It signals the lack of something we need: connection. Much like hunger is a […]
Today’s Solar Eclipse reminds me of how you (and many powerful women I know) may be blocking love out of their life! The single biggest block to attracting the right man is the feeling of loneliness, aloneness, emptiness that craves relief. I have a client how went to a party this weekend and reported back, […]
As a year ends, and another year begins, it’s time for you and I to have a little heart-to-heart talk about where you are in your life, in your relationship (or lack of one), and what comes next. Listen to this (Click below to listen) Or Right-Click Here To Download File Much Love, Barry
If you’ve ever been hurt…. …or angry… that your heart was not handled with loving-hands. If inside you is a jagged tear where someone else inserted their hopes, their demands, their punishing looks and pulled until it hurt and left a hole. If pain is the state of stillness, and quiet is loneliness. Then you’ve […]
This week’s report is a day late because Anna and I have had her wonderful family down visiting us! Summer is a great time for vacations and visitors but now I am back in full swing so here is what’s happening this week in the dating world that matters most to you and what to […]
Dearest girl, deep inside you know who you are. And your inner radiance, that exuberance of joy and spirit, awaits being seen and understood by the spirit of your soulmate. Yet, how can this happen if we hide within ourself? How can he find what is hidden? Sometimes, through lifes travails we retreat to the […]
Something happened to me this morning and it relates to you. As I sat having breakfast at a cafe, I witnessed exactly what causes so many of us, and so many of the women I serve, to go through their lives pushing intimacy away and protecting themselves from being hurt by disappointment. As I sat, […]
We all dance with fear, sometimes. In the quiet moments. The lonely moments that come. Sometimes isolation visits us when we are surrounded by people, by family, on those special occasions and holidays when we feel aware that we are not like the others around us. We feel different. Not seen. Not understood. At those […]
On a lonely morning, when the quiet is emptiness. In the deathly dark night, when isolation seizes the heart. Do not doubt, do not despair. Your spirit is love. Fill yourself. And life will overflow. ~ BPK Often, we can feel the most lonely in the quiet times. Many of us avoid quiet and peace […]