It’s a common refrain from women I meet, “When I met him he seemed…” and then they describe a guy who SEEMED to have it all together: confident, strong, took care of business, sensitive, supportive, caring, and on and on. Maybe you know what comes next. What comes next is, they share about how Prince […]
You may have noticed that the title of this article tells men they need to read this — I put that there because, typically, I have found far more women are interested in spending time and energy to consciously design their dynamic with the opposite sex while men tend not to do so. In our […]
Being a powerful woman around men brings up a lot of challenges. Some men are intimidated. Others turn you into their Mommy, relying on you to be the strong ‘doer’ in the relationship. So how, as a powerful woman, can you have a healthy relationship with a man who carries his weight, does his share […]
If you’ve ever been hurt…. …or angry… that your heart was not handled with loving-hands. If inside you is a jagged tear where someone else inserted their hopes, their demands, their punishing looks and pulled until it hurt and left a hole. If pain is the state of stillness, and quiet is loneliness. Then you’ve […]
Dearest girl, deep inside you know who you are. And your inner radiance, that exuberance of joy and spirit, awaits being seen and understood by the spirit of your soulmate. Yet, how can this happen if we hide within ourself? How can he find what is hidden? Sometimes, through lifes travails we retreat to the […]
Dear ‘Experts’ on the Masculine & Feminine… what are you doing?? I humbly submit that you’ve gotten it all wrong. I recently did an interview where I was asked “What’s the difference between masculine and feminine?” The thing is, asking the question, “What defines feminine vs masculine?” is inherently a VERY masculine thing to do! […]
We all dance with fear, sometimes. In the quiet moments. The lonely moments that come. Sometimes isolation visits us when we are surrounded by people, by family, on those special occasions and holidays when we feel aware that we are not like the others around us. We feel different. Not seen. Not understood. At those […]
Have you ever asked yourself why it’s so hard to find the right guy? Why there have been so many ups-and-downs, disappointments and days-and-nights spent waiting, wondering and hoping? Or are you maybe even beginning to lose hope? Well, here’s the thing: you have a choice — and finding the right guy or not depends […]
This live talk was amazing. We had almost thirty women there for a standing-room only, exciting Saturday evening where we answered all their biggest questions about why there are so many boys out there, and how to find the right man. We gave SO much value and the reviews were raves! Women said it was […]
No one in my industry wants to talk about this, but dating can be a frustrating, disappointing experience that eventually makes us angry! We can be angry we are alone (Why do other people get to be happy, but not me??), frustrated we only attract the wrong guys who treat us like crap, or fed-up […]