If you’ve tried finding your soulmate, you’ve probably had some disappointments along the way in the shape of various men who turned out to be boys. Failed relationships hurt, and dating can feel heavy — more like something you want to avoid than you look forward to! So how do you attract a soulmate with […]
If you’ve ever felt like your needs come last around men and relationships, or that your life seems to go better while you’re on your own than while you’re with a man then I’ve got something for you — something to make sure your needs come first, and that relationships don’t mean losing yourself. Click […]
When did doubt first creep into your mind? Doubt about yourself. Doubt about whether the right man was out there? Whether you could have all you dreamed of having? At what point did your childhood hopes get extinguished? Was it when you were told to grow up? Did growing up somehow mean giving up? Giving […]
When did men stop being gentlemen who treat women like ladies? Well, I want women to notice that what happened to some men was, when feminism rose men began to get mixed signals about what it was okay to do for women and what women wanted to do for themselves. Now, the truth is, women […]
This idea that there are specific places which inherently are best to meet men misleads many women into getting frustrated (“Where are all the good men? I can’t find them!”). The truth, in my strong opinion, is that where you meet the right man depends entirely on the woman who is asking the question — […]
There will be discomfort. Days when you question if anything will ever change. Nights when you’ll wonder if you’ll always be alone. Sometimes you’ll worry you aren’t enough. That something may be wrong with you. Beating yourself up for that time you looked away instead of holding eye contact with a man you wanted to […]
If you haven’t found soulmate love with the right man, chances are there are some hidden barriers and fears standing in the way. The most common block I run across with clients is the subconscious fear and belief that “I Am Not Enough”. Today I’m sharing a mini-meditation that helps clear this block to put […]
I saw a greeting card today with “DON’T LEAVE ME” in big letters on the front and it got me thinking… Fear of being abandoned. Fear of being alone. These two fears, ironically, are what keep single women alone. That’s right… you can literally push men away without knowing you’re doing it because these two […]
The problem with pain is that it hurts. My Mom lived a lifetime in pain. The pain of loneliness. Of never feeling like she was enough for a good man. As a result, my childhood was a procession of men who seemed to treat her great at first, only to hurt and disappoint her, leaving […]
I’ve spoken with a lot of women. Single women. Married women. Women who have just been dumped. Women who were dumped without ever being told they were being dumped (he just disappeared). I’ve heard women recount how men seemed great at first, and said all the right things, but then, at some point, he changed. […]